FTM Essentials: A Comprehensive Guide to Gender Affirming Tools and Tips

If you are here, then you know the struggle that comes with dressing up as a transman. Don’t worry, gender-affirming tools and clothes are all you need to look fabulous.

For a masculine look, things like binders and packers, in addition to men’s clothing are important parts of your wardrobe. This helps us express who we are and reduce discomfort in public places.

For many FTM, getting the right fit that complements our bodies is challenging. This is because most fashion houses tailor items of clothing to cisgender proportions. This article provides in-depth information on clothing, tools, and self-care for transmen.

Clothing Essentials

Tops

T-shirts

How many T-shirts should I own as a transman? Well, let’s just say unlimited. Men’s T-shirts are the most versatile, comfortable, and ultra-stylish wear.

They are worn with almost everything and are your choice for casual, formal or occasion wear. Style them up for your dates, meetings or get-togethers.

To achieve that masculine look, go for a two size bigger than your usual. Also, look for a square-shaped T-shirt to compliment your shape.

Depending on the occasion, pick t-shirts from simple plain ones, polo, Henley, striped, short sleeves, coloured, oversized, graphic tees, to even fitted ones.

Button-up shirts

This is my all-time favorite office wear that can be dressed up or down depending on the occasion. To get a more masculine look, you can layer them over a shirt or wear them open with a t-shirt underneath.

Button-up shirts are worn with jeans, official trousers, and even shorts. For your holiday look, pick flowered ones with a more masculine color.

Hoodies and jackets

Hoodies and jackets are cool outerwear for men’s fashion statements. They are comfy and if correctly paired they give that masculine energy.

Men’s hoodies come in various styles such as zip-up, pullover hoodie, slim fit hoodie oversized, graphic hoodies and baja hoodie just to mention a few. Choose a fit that best describes your style.

Other outerwear for men that shows masculinity includes Biker jackets, Jean jackets, puffers, leather, hooded, and bomber jackets. Pair them up with your jeans, shorts, or pajamas, and you are ready to rock.

Fabric and cut

While we can put on any wear under the sun, I’m always cautious about seasons, and that’s why it’s important to pay attention to the fabric and fit.

Loose or straight-cut clothes often give a more masculine look, while tight clothes around the waist can make you feel uncomfortable.

If you have muscles to flaunt, go for tight fit or sleeveless. Tight fits are also good for your gym wear. Loose fits are great if you are looking for casual-relaxing wear.

Depending on the season, pick a comfortable fabric. For instance, hoodies come in lightweight, heavyweight or fleece. This can be worn when it’s appropriate.

2. Bottoms

Pants

It’s not our fault we can’t find a perfect pair of pants that gives us that masculine fit; it’s simply the fashion world that’s more focused on cisgender proportions.

When we shop for pants as transmen, we need to focus on our waist and hip size in order to get the right fit. Aim for straight legs or a slightly tapered to achieve a square look.

While we continue to get it right with what pants are available. The good news is that the fashion world is changing, and nowadays we have special pants for transgender males.

Pants such as The Ezra and Jeremiah are tailored perfectly to fit a transman. Other brands such as chino, denim and athletic wear also provide pants with comfort.

Importance of fit

Getting the right fit is important because of:

• Comfortability- A good fit thats not too tight or oversize are comfortable to wear because they allow you to move freely.
• Boost confidence- When you get the right fit that enhances your masculinity, your confidence level goes through the roof
• Overall, good looks- well-fitted clothing that creates that masculine look makes us feel and look good.

Although straight cuts work best to give that masculine look, slim fits are the modern thing, every guy is talking about.

Straight cuts are good for someone with big thighs because they give that square-masculinity vibe.

On the other hand, slim fits are body hugging providing a streamlined snug fit running from your waist to your legs.

3. Underwear

As a transmen, the best underwear should allow you to pack and use other FTM tools. Therefore, pick something comfortable with enough space or a pouch.

If you are wondering which brands provide the best underwear for FTM, try out Rodeohs, Underworks, TomboyX, or Orgami. These brands are known for their variety of undergarments suitable for transmen.

4. Footwear

This is the easiest part because once you get your size you don’t have to worry about the type of shoes. Companies like Nike, Converse and Vans, create new men’s designs regularly.

Men’s shoes such as boots, sneakers black official shoes, converse and many more come in different sizes. There are also unisex shoes that you can select from.

Gender-Affirming Tools

Binders

What can l use to hide my breast? Well, if you have pondered over this question. Then you are in the right place. Binders are pieces of elastic clothing that are used to flatten the chest.

Commercial binders such as Gc2b, Underwork Econo, and shape shifters are among the best due to their elasticity and durability.

Alternatively, you can opt for sports or athletic bras, which are also good at hiding breasts.

While binders can be worn every day, they can cause more harm than good if you don’t observe the following rules:

• Do not sleep wearing a binder.
• Binders should not be too tight.
• Avoid wearing plastic wraps, bandages, and duct tape as binders
• They should not be worn for more than 8 hours.

2. Packers

Are you tired of trying to get the right bulge when going out? It’s time you tried out prosthetic packers. Packers are small prosthetic wear that makes it look like you have a natural penis bulging.

Type of packers

There are various types of packers that you can choose from depending on your needs. Some packers are used for packing only, while others are multi-functional.

For example;

• Soft-packers- these are soft, flaccid prosthetics that are used to create a natural bulge
• Hard packers- these are mainly multifunctional, 2 in 1 and 3 in 1. 2 in 1 is for packing and peeing while 3 in 1 is for pack, pee and play.
• Homemade packers – these are packers that are made from rolled-up socks, jockstraps or packing boxers.

3. STP ( Stand-to-Pee) Devices

Have you ever been to the men’s room and you can’t pee standing up? Yes, I know the feeling. Now, with a stand-to-pee gadget, you can visit any restroom in public restroom and not feel ashamed.

STP is a prosthetic gadget that allows you to pee while standing. Always choose a size that fits well and ensure you clean it regularly to avoid infections.

4. Transtape

This is a body-suitable tape that is used for binding and tucking. It’s easy to customize and a better alternative to binders.

Transtape gives a more natural look and they are less visible compared to binders. let us dive into the pros and cons of transtape to help you understand better.

Pros

• Less visible on clothes.
• Reduced chances of rib and muscle damage.
• They are waterproof and can be worn while swimming or showering.

Cons

• It uses adhesives, which therefore cause skin irritation.
• It causes improper stretching that can cause skin burns.

Grooming and Personal Care

Haircuts and Hairstyling

If you already know what hairstyle suits your head. Visit a barber and wear that haircut. Trust me you will be surprised how much you love your new hairstyle.

And if you don’t, worry not. Haircuts such as buzz cuts, fades and crew are known to give that masculine look to FTM. Communicate with your barber on what cut suits you.

Additionally, you can apply hair products such as pomade, wax, or gel to style and keep it in place.

Facial hair

You have been to the mirror several times, waiting for that beard to grow. Turns out, you will need more time before that hormonal therapy kicks in and grows your beard.

If you are not patient enough, then treatments like minoxidil, hair transplant and some natural oil remedies will help you grow your beard fast.

Skincare

Don’t assume you can’t have a good skincare routine because you have transitioned to a man. As a matter of fact, your skin is more delicate because of hormonal therapy.

Ensure you clean your face with a cleanser and wear protective sunscreen. Remember to moisturize your skin to avoid cracking and tearing.

Fragrance and Deodorant

Smell masculine all day with strong men’s deodorant like Oldspice and Every Man Jack. Always pick something that speaks to your style.

Confidence and Self-care

Voice Training

Do you have the right masculine look, but you are scared to speak? All you need to do is practice lowering your voice to sound masculine.

You can do this by:

• Humming
• Speaking from your chest
• Hiring a voice trainer

Mannerisms and Body Language

Its important that you adapt behaviours that are associated with men.Because it enables you to blend in naturally. Work on your posture as you practice standing with a straight back with your feet flat on the ground.

Additionally, pay attention to your hand placement and gestures. Walk with your hands in the side pockets or keep adjusting the crotch area.

Mental and Emotional Self-Care

Being a transman is not easy, as such you need to take good care of your mental health. Have fun and surround yourself with people who love and support your journey.

Things You Might Not Think About

Small Accessories

Small things like caps, belts, watches, ties, wallets, and socks should be part of your wardrobe. These tiny details are important because they define masculinity better than clothes.

Packing and Storage

Sorting and organizing your wardrobe and FTM gender tools enables you to access them easily and keep them safe.

Handling Dysphoria Outside the Home

Are you dressed up and ready to leave the house, but you are having body dysphoria? Don’t worry, we have all experienced that. Knowing how to handle dysphoria outside the home is important.

You can do this through:

• Re-affirming yourself with positive phrases to boost your confidence.
• Dressing up like men and using FTM devices and clothing like binders and packers.
• Adopting male mannerisms and behaviour, such as walking and talking.

Conclusion

While FTM gender-affirming tools are essential, remember you don’t need to break the bank to have them all. Always pick items that complement your style and look.

Be patient with your body as you continue to transition. Most importantly, seek support and be kind to yourself. Don’t forget to have fun and celebrate each victory.